Interview With a Sex Therapist

Although Dr. Ruth’s name may be known by millions of people, those “in the know” – and we are in the know — consider, Dr. Marty Klien, to be just about the last word in the field of sex therapy. Author of “Your Sexual Secrets” (published by Dutton), and, more recently “Ask Me Anything: A Sex Therapist Answers the Most Important Questions for the ’90s” (published by Fireside/Simon & Schuster), Marty Klein has been a consistent voice of sanity and good sense in a sometimes, well, flakey field.
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Sex and the surrogate

More than 60 years ago, the gurus of modern sexual therapy, Dr William H. Masters and Virginia E. Johnson, assigned their coupled patients some rigorous bedroom homework. Those who struggled to find the clitoris or grasp the “squeeze technique” for suppressing premature ejaculation, were read the manual and then told to go play.
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Surrogate lover

I recently saw a British TV show that profiled a woman who works as a sex surrogate in France. The way she worked seemed very professional and I’m interested in this type of service. When I did a search for sex-surrogate services in Toronto, I didn’t get hits. I’m looking for someone to help me with a lack of sexual knowledge and I don’t think an escort is the way to go. Is this type of service available in Toronto?
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The Sexual Surrogate

In modern Western societies the messages about sex are extremely contradictory and confusing. We have no traditional rites of passage nor meaningful ceremonies to initiate young people into informed adult sexuality. I hoped that my work might establish standards that could help people of all ages have less confusion about sex and intimate relationships.
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What is a Surrogate Partner?

A surrogate partner is a member of a three-way therapeutic team consisting of therapist, client and surrogate partner. The surrogate participates as a partner to the client in experiences designed to build the client’s skills in the areas of physical and emotional intimacy. This partnerwork includes exercises in communication, relaxation, sensual and sexual touching, and social skills training.
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What is Sex Therapy?

Sex therapy is a specialized form of professional counseling that helps women and men address concerns about sexual function, sexuality and sexual expression. These may include problems with arousal, inability to reach orgasm, painful intercourse or issues of sexual identity. Couples or individuals may talk to a therapist when they have differences in sexual desire, the need to increase verbal and physical communication, or to find ways to enhance their intimate relationships.
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The Art Of Being Human

I look in the bag. Dad s Assorted. It would probably be rude to root through until I found a chocolate chip, so I decline.
“Okay,” he smiles and shrugs; a big hand plunges again into the yellow bag and he returns his gaze to what s happening around him.
It is an exercise to give human service workers just a hint, just a glimmer, of what it feels like to be someone totally dependent on other human beings.
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The Sexuality of One Paralyzed Man: Sex does exist after paralysis

Hi, my name is Gordon and I am writing to you after reading Grace’s columns on sex. She is so right on. I learned some things from her about woman that I had not thought of before. Now I want to share my own experience regarding sexuality, or lack of, which was the case when I ended up a paraplegic after breaking my lower vertebrae’s on some rocks at the beach.
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How to have sexual intercourse

Q: Now that I have a disability, I’m really concerned about having sexual intercourse. Can I do it? And what kind of sex life can I have if I can’t?
A: To the question “Can I do it?,” the answer is usually, “Yes.” The obstacle most often faced by women is an inability to lubricate, which is easily solved with a non-petroleum-based product such as K-Y Jelly or Astroglide.
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The Terri Schiavo case

As readers are probably well aware, Schiavo is in a persistent vegetative state (PVS) as the result of a 1990 heart attack. PVS, also known as “cortical death,” is the irreversible loss of the part of the brain controlling judgment and reason. Physical functions and reflexes are intact in varying degrees, but any meaningful life is gone.
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